What you’ll need: 

• One yellow candle 

• Rose quartz 

• Bergamot or Sacred Frankincense oil 

What you need to do: 

• Carve your name on the yellow candle and add a few  drops of your oil on it to anoint it 

• Light the candle and take the rose quartz in your hands 

• Clear your mind of distracting thoughts and focus on the  idea and feeling of friendship while you gaze at the flame 

• Think of what it means to you, what it makes you feel,  and what role a new friend may have in your life 

• If you are thinking of a specific person, visualize your  friendship together 

• When you’re ready, chant this three times: I am ready for new friendships. I am open to new beginnings. I accept all the love and kindness new friendships provide. I am a good and wonderful friend. I attract goodness and kindness and I give and receive. Nothing but the very best.

You can also chant the name of a specific person three  times if you have someone in mind  

• Once you’ve watched the flame burn all the way while  envisioning what friendship feels and looks like, set  to carry the rose quartz in your pocket until the new  friendship forms 

• You can also place the rose quartz on your altar to do its  job from there 

• When you see an opportunity, take it and invite your new  friend to coffee or for a walk