Okay, so maybe you’re a little more broken than a fire ritual  can heal. I get it. Sometimes things are bad. Really bad. The  following is a technique I only used only once on a ‘friend’  who had betrayed me in such a financially and emotionally  brutal way, that I had no idea how to pick up the pieces. 

While  I’m not proud of it, it gave my mind the space it needed to  see the ‘perpetrator’ suffer enough that my heart was finally  allowed the space it had to have to grieve for once and for all.  Finally, after this technique, I was able to forgive. 

Time does  help heal all wounds, but this helped me to get free from my  prison mind and get past the pain so I could function again.  Sit in your magic space or outside where you won’t be  disturbed. This can be intense, and I’m pretty sure I screamed  out loud so have a pillow handy if you need to muffle sound.  

Picture the person that hurt you. This person that made you  suffer. Now grab them by the scruff of their soul and fly up  and pin their soul to the surface of the sun. That huge ball of  flame that gives us life and itself is alive. 

Pin them to it where  they cannot escape.  Watch as their skin and muscles burn from their body. Watch  them scream and writhe in agony as they fry. Watch them  as their bones melt and their pain is so complete that pure  agony is all they are.   Then, because you’ve pinned their soul, their ‘body’  immediately reforms, and they go through it all over again.  And again and again, until you have seen them suffer enough  to cool the fire within your cells that won’t let you think  straight. 

Give your reptilian mind what it needs to get past the trauma  so you can move to forgiveness of them and yourself, at any  age you need to go back to. Because hurt people hurt people.  And your conditioning allowed the space that made you  vulnerable to them in the first place. 

You’ve got to forgive.  You have suffered. Now they have suffered—immensely!  Remember all that we have learned about the power of the  mind. If you can see it, on some level it is done. Watch them  endure what no creature should ever have to until you’ve  had your fill. Then get to where you can transmute it with  forgiveness of yourself and of them and burn through the  pain that is smothering you. When you’re ready, release their  soul, thereby releasing your soul, and let them flutter away  to heal. 

Or see them being absorbed by the One where they  cannot hurt anyone else.  From this practice, the only Integration that may be possible  is something like…  I am peace. There is peace. I give peace. I receive peace.  I am forgiven. I forgive

Give yourself peace and forgiveness and healing and love and  kindness and more peace for the 20-minute Integration and  let your soul (and theirs) heal.  This is only for those times when you cannot think around  your anger and suffering. You have been hurt so badly that  you cannot find your way to heal. Practice this with caution.  Neither of you will ever be the same